Face-off!
Last weekend, I had to face someone I never knew ever exists. One I thought could never be in me. But just at right time, it revealed itself onto me. For years I thought I thought its dead, I am in best of me. And very next moment it popped up. Boiling my Blood to a level I have never experienced before.
Well yes I do get “ANGER”, now that I know. Actually I knew it from very early days that I have anger within me, but the level was not yet discovered. I hope, what I experienced over weekend, was its peak. I had the policy, of not getting into an argument, or things are not working the way you want it when you are angry. For the best of things and time, I used to keep quite and let myself cool down. The time lag had been few minutes till now. This was the first time it went over hours.
I had always treated anger as the worst of the qualities you can posses in your life. But then its only time you discover that it’s the only thing that might be required for most of the things to happen like:
- To show that you care, you need to shout with Anguish.
- To show that you need it, you need to show that you Zeal.
- To show that you disagree, you need to put your Foot Down.
- To show that things are not right, you need to Fight Back.
- To make sure that you are not taken for granted, when you are asked you need to Rebel.
Well I have always been a calm and compassionate person. Actually I demonstrate myself to be one. But last Sunday, I literally walked over a conversation which I didn’t agree and shut myself from any kind of communication/conversation for 24 hours. I got my scores leveled for sure.
But then some part of within me which still says that, “I don’t want to Face-Off myself, with the same.”
Am I the only one to discover it by my own or are others also discovering it. Let me know what you think.
Are you afraid of this Face-off yourself!
Anger, like other emotions is so very natural. As long as its in moderation, its okay.
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sunny Reply:
October 27th, 2009 at 4:38 pm
Well i encountered it for first time, and never knew it could be so difficult. How many times have you ever got sacred of your own behavior?
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I think its but natural! I prefer to walk away when I am angry as I might say words which would better not be said in that state!
As they say, when u r angry, count 10!
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sunny Reply:
October 27th, 2009 at 4:39 pm
I don’t know if count till 10 helps. Because if thats the case, i would have counted a MILLION, before there was any sign of subsiding.
How many times have you ever got sacred of your own behavior?
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Sigh!! I can not keep my mouth shut!!! I confront the person there n now and it isn’t always pleasant!
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sunny Reply:
October 29th, 2009 at 8:31 am
Exactly, Its isn’t always pleasant!
So what do you do like me run away! feel bad of not doing it.
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I used to be angry many times, but then one day – revelation, why should I be and waste energy for something negative. Anna
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sunny Reply:
October 30th, 2009 at 8:31 am
Noble revelation indeed.
I realized it myself, but its not always negative. Its that high blood and aderaline hormone rush that actually makes you go crazy and loose it all.
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As a very short-tempered person, I am still learning how to control my emotions and not run amok!
Don’t worry, there is nothing wrong showing your emotions. As long as it’s subtle 
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Same here.. I am cool headed but if I get angry, then I am really hopeless at controlling it. I start blabbering something that I would regret about later.. So usually whenever I get angry, I stop talking or lock myself up till my anger subsides
else I know I will regret later on
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